When seeking guidance with tarot cards, it’s important to use empowering questions that keep the focus on the self by avoiding third-party and closed questions. Empowering questions can also bring so much more information out of the cards and allow for so much more to come through for the tarot reader.
Let’s look at some examples:
“Will I get back with my ex?”
This is a yes or no answer question, a closed question. It’s also phrased in a way that removes freewill over being choice-based.
Let’s see if we can rephrase this to empower you by making the question open-ended and puts you in the hot seat to maintain control over your life.
“How am I in relationship with my ex now?”
“What do I need to know about the relationship I had with my ex?”
“What can I do to re-engage with my ex?”
After all that, you may decide you actually don’t want to see your ex again and there are so many more paths on your journey for the future, rather than looking at the past.
“How might I find love?”
“What signs might I see when a new love is near?”
“What are some ways I might manifest new romantic relationships into my life?”
I don’t know about you, but I’m feeling more empowered already! Let’s try another!
“Should I quit my job?”
Uh oh, another closed question! Let’s get to the root of the issue here, do you dislike your job? Maybe you feel underappreciated or see yourself in a totally different career. Let’s see how we can empower change in your life.
“What might I experience if I left my current job?”
“What new opportunities are emerging in my career?”
“How might I manifest my career goals?”
“What is coming into my conscious awareness regarding my work life?”
Now we can delve deeper into any issues, seek awareness and decide what is best for us as we speak our truth.
You can always email me kimberly@lovingguidingenergy.com if you need some help with questions.
